Do You Often Feel Unhappy? Here is How to Avoid Having Habits of Unhappy People

Do You Often Feel Unhappy? It’s easy to be happy and positive when everything is perfectly balanced in our lives and things are simply going great. The true test of being happy actually comes when things aren’t going so good or the way we’d like them to. When life is little chaotic, we often have to refuse to let chaos bring us down. Remember, the only person who can really control your happiness is you.

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Here are eight habits of chronically unhappy people. If you identify with any of these points, it might be time to start focusing on the positives.

  1. Holding a Grudge

Holding a grudge is like carrying around a weight. It’s always there, even if you’ve pushed it to the back of your mind. Carrying a grudge won’t allow you to be happy. While it can be extremely difficult to move on when someone betrays you or hurts you, try not to let your bad experience affect your future. Let go of the bitterness you’ve been holding. You’ll feel happier and lighter.

  1. Being Critical

True self-esteem takes years to develop. But without this process we can’t be truly happy. Realizing your self-worth contributes greatly to your happiness. It allows you to be more comfortable and confident in your own body or skin. That confidence simply affects and radiates to others. In the same way, being overly critical of others says more about you than it does about them. Someone who is constantly criticizing others isn’t truly happy with himself or herself.  It’s very important to respect that everyone is different. That’s perfectly OK.

  1. Addiction

Unhappy people often look for an outlet to help them forget about their sorrow or anger. Depending on drugs, alcohol, gambling or other vices to cover up how you’re really feeling will only bring you down further. Instead, try to find a positive outlet. Writing, painting,music… find a way to express yourself that will complete you.

  1. Constant Complaining

Happy people know that complaining won’t do any good at all. If they want to change the things, they need to act and not constantly complain. People who are constantly complaining give off a negative energy that affects everyone around them. Instead of focusing on how awful or unfair one moment or situation is, think of a way to turn it around.

  1. Being Filled With Regret

Research shows that constant and repetitive negative thoughts about decisions made in the past can lead to depression and chronic stress. From time to time, we all wish we had done or said something different, but the past is the past. Obsessing over mistakes won’t change what happened, it will only hinder your future. Learn from your mistakes, decide what you would do in the future if the situation occurred again, and let it go.

  1. Gossiping – Characteristic for Unhappy People

People who gossip exude unhappiness and insecurity. When someone isn’t satisfied with his or her own life, instead gives focus on the lives of others. He or she tries to find the most negative things to say about people. That makes this person feel better. A confident and happy person has no use for gossip. If you are really happy, you’re focusing on all positive things in your own life. You don’t try to bring others down.

  1. Worrying About the Future

Having goals and plans and saving money for the future is one thing. But a life full of constant worry about what may or may not happen can only hold you back from being happy. We don’t know how the future will be. It can be scary, but have enough faith in yourself to know that you can handle a situation when it comes. Be kind, work hard, aim high, and the rest will simply come.

  1. Making Problems Bigger

When a not-so-great situation comes, an unhappy person will always make it worse. They tend to overreact and see things negatively instead of finding a way to fix what actually went wrong. We all encounter things we’d rather not deal with.

The difference between  happy and  unhappy person is how they handle a hard situation. Take a step back and a deep breath. Always search for a solution!

 

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Source: DavidWolfe

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